Thursday, April 24, 2008

Damn You and Damn that Vacuum!











Nealie is now more mobile than ever; she pulls up on everything, attempts small steps and crawls faster than Meeshka, sometimes. I came home yesterday and our babysitter informed me that Nealie seemed to have hit her head on the coffee table but didn't seem to notice. We knew the day was coming, since the table is made of granite. Our idea was to line the coffee table with pipe insulation and duct tape so that she would, quite literally, bounce off if she came into contact with it.

When she discovered her "new toy" today, she spent a good half hour circling and pulling up to standing. I started doing some chores around the house while keeping her well in my sites. Or so I thought. Although Nealie had gone around to the side of the coffee table that was adjacent to the couch, she hadn't returned for a few minutes. I ventured over, and an angelic face smiled up at me. Figuring she was fine, I sat down on the couch and began conversing with the explorer. After running her fingers across the floor a couple of times, she lifted her sweet little fingers to her lips. There it was: a slobbery piece of pipe insulation!
For the terrified and appalled individuals reading this, we definitely did not line the coffee table with fiberglass insulation. It is made of foam, the same material the ones in Babies R Us are made of. But, I still wasn't too excited about my daughter eating it! Creating a rather demanding fish hook with my finger, I scooped the small piece out of her clenched mouth (must have Curt's jaw...) and threw it in the garbage.

Of course, now I was concerned that there might be more pieces left over from the construction the night before. I scooped up Nealie, who would rather run from me than be held at this given moment, and deposited her into her ExerSaucer. Then, I brought out the vacuum to complete the job at hand. I have vacuumed since Nealie was born, often holding her or placing her in that same play device, but Nealie is...changing. She has started to experience emotion in a way only a very dramatic woman would understand -- as I do:). I started the vacuum and what happened next took me by surprise. Nealie's face turned to one of absolute horror and fear. Gaping silence was all her face expressed. I turned off the vacuum and reassured her that everything would be okay. I tried again. And again. And again, every time with the same results.

Eventually, I got half of the living room vacuumed while holding her and chanting, "Everything's okay, it's going to be all right." But what do I know? All I can do is try to share the same safety and comfort that was provided to me as a child. Luckily, we get to start with small challenges, like vacuums.

Wednesday, April 16, 2008

Round and Round We Go


Nealie woke up today from her afternoon nap with a shout. Just one, but clear enough to say, Get me NOW! I brought her directly into the living room where she immediately began exploring, crawling and climbing. I instructed Curtis to entertain her while I finished some homework. Nealie disagreed with my decision, which she made clear through flailing complaints at my feet. There was obviously nothing left for me to do but succumb. I abandoned my deficient homework and slid down onto the floor, alongside my newly grinning daughter.


After exercising her mommy mountain climbing techniques she soon found something more interesting nearby to play with: a crumpled piece of notebook paper. I watched as Nealie as she became engrossed in the piece of paper, no longer concerned about the whereabouts of her mother.


A few minutes later, she headed back towards me, but took a hard left around the coffee table and started crawling towards the entertainment center. This was followed by another hard left towards the couch, and then another and another... I watched in disbelief for a few moments as my daughter began, slowly but surely, circling the coffee table. She would pause when she was catercorner from me, peek under the coffee table, and giggle. When she would get to my side of the coffee table, I kept expecting for her to forget the actions that made her the dizziest 9-month old in town. Surprisingly, she would just continue around and around, without pause or consideration of anything around her. After about fifteen circulations, I decided to crawl around the table with her. This seemed to break the spell; she sat down and waited for me to finish my round, laughed and climbed up onto me.


The questions that follow this interesting escapade are: Does Nealie follow in her A.D.H.D. father's footsteps? Does she really have that much energy? Are we even going to be able to catch her when she starts running (because, really, isn't walking out of the question?)?


Either way, I feel blessed every day to experience something new with our amazing, little Nealie.